Thursday, February 19, 2009

get a handle on germs

a few days ago I talked with a mom who is using a Library Computer and while we are thinking of bathroom door knobs being germy with flu and cold viruses among other nasty stuff... do you relize that "community property" like a library computer may put you at risk even more?
For the "happy hr" crowd, did you notice that your glass made you anything but happy for a few days? Yuk! Hope it made you think and act responsibly.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

Free day at the zoo

The Denver Zoo is open from 10 a.m - 5 p.m. on Sat. Feb. 14, 2009.

free iPod Nano?

If you are a teen 13-18, go to MySpace.com, search Aloha Teen Tower, click the hula girl and ‘friend us’.
If you’re one of the first 75 teens (AND you have a DCL Library Card!), to friend us by March 15, 2009, you’re eligible to win in a drawing for a free iPod Nano.

Mama sez

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with her, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the ending...compromise is a two way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.